First, I am not a runner. Sure, I run: I can quickly place one foot in front of the other, sweat, breathe in, breathe out. I’ve even done an eight-minute mile, but I’m not a runner in the sense you probably think of runners. I don’t crave those sunrise runs, orange and blue sports drinks, and know all about the latest gel-based shoes. I don’t have a lean, svelte body. I am not tall. I have never been athletically gifted; I’ve been more alphabetically gifted. Still, I ran, and finished, the Chicago Marathon.
Over a year ago in my Lifelong Project challenge I tried to think of the singular most difficult thing a person could do. I considered climbing Mount Everest or Mount Kilimanjaro but I live in Indiana, where there landscape is flat as a pancake, so training for those outings wouldn’t be feasible. I thought about hiking the Appalachian Trail ala Bill Bryson, but immediately ruled out anything that involved black bears and sleeping in a tent for more than a few nights. I tossed around a few other ideas and settled on the Chicago Marathon.
This was a real challenge - we all know the guy who ran the first one died at the end and last year a man died before the end of the Chicago Marathon. This was scary, people. I also knew I’d have to consistently train, cut way back on my cigars, beer, and scotch, and find someone who could offer some guidance on what I was in for. My friend Don Kunhle is a runner; he’s run a marathon, loads of half-marathons, and is a Marine - he was my coach. Don created a reasonable running schedule for me, ran with me, coached me, and made me promise that I would not quit. He held me accountable and for that I’m thankful.
In my training I completed four half marathons around Indianapolis. The first half was a tough one but my last one seemed easy. It was only easy, like most things in life that we think are easy, because I was prepared. From last May until October 12 I was running nearly every day of the week. I had told too many people, ran too many miles already, and invested too much blood, sweat, and new gym shorts to quit now. I was committed.
On one of my last training runs, lost in thought, I realized that the hardest part of the marathon is what most people don’t see: the planning and preparation to get to the starting line. Training is part of the marathon. I’ve learned that running a Marathon is one of the toughest things anyone can ever do. I have newfound respect for people that run, quickly, a marathon.
October 10 was here. My friends Martha, Fred, and Carin made the trek with me to Chicago to cheer me on. I was nervous and didn’t sleep much before the race. On race day morning, 5:00 a.m. I was awake and ready to get this goal crossed off my list for 2008, and maybe for the rest of my life. It was already muggy outside and the day promised to be unusually warm. The 2007 Chicago Marathon was canceled mid-race due to heat and I was worried for the day’s outlook promised to be a hot one. I pinned on my runner’s bid, tied my timing chip into my shoes, and strapped on my watch. I, along with 35,000 other people, lined up for a wicked foot-tour of Chicago.
I left Grant Park in the heart of downtown and headed north to my old neighborhood, Wrigleyville. From there I ran south, back towards downtown, and then west of the city. Along the route there were thousands, some have said over a million, spectators to cheers the runners and to hand out water, Gatorade, bananas, and candy. I followed the pack east and then south towards Chinatown. Dancing dragons, firecrackers, and noisemakers cheered me onto Pilsen where mariachi bands, drums, and pumping music kept my spirits high. Martha, Fred, and Carin had their own marathon of sorts as they took the El around Chicago to rendezvous with me; it was amazing how their chants, smiles, and high-fives kept me moving. Thanks for coming, guys!
Kilimanjaro sounded, even felt, more feasible than 26.2 miles when I got to mile 22. My body ached, my head felt like I had a concussion, the temperature was near eighty, and I was layered in a grimy, salty sweat. Finally, I reached mile 24 and I knew, really knew, that I was going to finish this crazy goal. I made myself pick up the pace and ran those last two miles into the finish. My heart pounded, the crowds roared, and I cried when I ran those final yards across the finish line.
Mission accomplished.
I proved, to myself more than anyone, that I am capable of doing more than I believed. We all are capable of doing more than we think. Your capacity to do more, to accomplish, to reach for the impossible, and to grasp beyond ether starts with your own creative thought. The impossible becomes possible with planning and preparation. Your ambition becomes a reality by doing. The line between the creative thought and the implicit action is not a direct, easy stroke. The space between where you are now and where you want to be is as jagged as a lightning bolt, as mysterious as an unopened gift, and as exciting, well, it’s as exciting as finishing a marathon.
Thank you for sharing in my Lifelong Project this year. I still have one more goal to accomplish this year and it looks like I’ll have news to share on this soon. My creation, The Lifelong Project, uses the principles of project management to create a fuller, richer, more exciting life. I know it works. If I can do it you can too. So once again I’ll ask you: what would happen if you treated the next year of your life like a project?
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